Jeffrey

Engels

I`m looking for someone monogamous, honest, loving and trustworthy. I believe I possess these qualities and need the same out of a partner. I want someone who doesn’t get uptight about the small stuff. If you are still in the closet please move along. I`m not interested in dating anyone who still has problems being gay. I avoid drama as much as possible. I need someone who wants intimacy as much as sex. I like an equal balance. I also would like them to be totally out. This doesn't mean you have to march in a pride parade every weekend but simply want to live your life like any other couple not hiding or being ashamed of our relationship. You also must be an animal lover. I have several pets and take my responsibility to them seriously.





It would also be nice if you love Colorado and the mountains. That is the main reason I moved to the this area of the country. For years I lived in Florida on the Gulf and never had an interest for the area. After vacationing here a few times I knew right away that I needed to be close to the mountains. I like getting in my Wrangler and driving the back roads in the mountains finding new and interesting places. Most of all I`m looking for someone who treats me well and treats others the same.





It has taken me many years to figure out what I am and what I want. I've tried conforming to other peoples view of what I should be and that has not made me happy. I will say that I`m pretty sensitive at times. I`m trying to learn to not wear my heart on my sleeve as it gets hurt quite often that way. In the past I have been pretty naive I guess, but am trying to wake up and not be so blindly trusting. I know that sounds bad, but my blind trust of people has not really paid off in the past so I'm trying to be a little more cautious.





Well, I'm kind of old fashioned about relationships. I don`t sleep with someone on the first date. I like romantic stuff. I always envisioned myself being a stay at home dad with a couple of children. Problem is I never have met anyone else that felt that way so now I`m nearly 42 and that thought has passed. If you are looking for someone that you would describe as “very masculine” then that’s not me. On a scale from 1 to 10 of masculinity I would say I’m somewhere in the 7-8 range. I feel that I`m more of a nurturing type of person and therefore often take that role in a relationship. The problem with that is that most of the people I have dated have taken advantage of that. While I do a lot for others and want to please people I have needs myself. It seems not many people these days know how to treat others, not even their partner.





I like a guy that is different from me. By that I mean I like having someone that fills the gaps in my personality. Sure, you have to have some basic beliefs that are the same, but I don`t want an identical copy of myself. I could not live with someone like me, haha. I need someone who can be strong, but caring. Someone who can take charge when needed, but still respects my opinion and cares what I think. Someone smart and passionate. A persons personality can make them or break them for me regardless of looks. I`m not into group sex, open relationships or anything like that.





I`m shy at first, but warm up quickly. Please contact me if you are interested.

Leeuw

Een paar extra kilo's

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Blauw

Blank

Single

Nee

Ja

Ogen

Donkerblond

Hond

Ja

Bachelor

Student

Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur

Minder dan € 15.000

Met Huisgeno(o)ten

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Nerd

Grappig, Vriendelijk, Gereserveerd, Verlegen

Computers, Internet, Spellen, Films, Muziek, Kaarten spelen

Met Vrienden zijn, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan, Relaxen, Thuis blijven, Films

Vriendelijk, Gek

Agnostisch

Nooit

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek

Documentaires, Drama's, Educatief, Films, Reality

Science Fiction, Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Documentair, Animatie

Ambient, Klassiek, Country, New Age, Pop

Computers, Fictie, Romantiek, Science Fiction, Technisch

Empathie, Humor, Intelligentie, Gevoeligheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Vastigheid