Ok, here's a bit about me....I am a single 40 year old guy living and working in New York. I have had a few long-term relationships and have been single for four years now. I am searching for someone to exclusively date on a regular basis with the hope of leading into something more serious and permanent. The challenge, however, is that most guys idea of dating isn't necessarily in sync with my own. I do enjoy--and miss--the flirting, witty and clever dialogue, quality time exploring one another's respective 'worlds, ' building the foundation of a lasting friend/relationship and some good ol' fashion romance. I don’t miss the serial daters, the baggage handlers and those men who can’t seem to make their mind up one way or the other. If any of what I am saying strikes or chord or simply piques your interest then get in touch and let's chat a bit.

Scorpio

Fit

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Black

No

University Degree

Full-time

Education / Academic

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - One Or Two

Brain

Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Family, Dining, Travel, Camping, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

You and me.

Being loved as much as i love somebody else. i think its kind of scary but a lot of fun.

Friendly, Cool

Spiritual But Not Religious

To make the most of myself. I am an academic by nature, I read a lot, I like knowing things, I travel and I enjoy good conversation. I also like good food and wine and I would be lying if I didn't say it's one of my goals to meet a guy who shares at least some of my own.

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary, Thriller

Rap, Rock, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Dance, Soul

News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Mystery, Nature, Reference, Poetry, Satire, I'm An Author

Books, my friends, laughing a nice meal, some red wine, a museum, dogs, the outdoors, the sea, walking, my family, art, music, good food, running, laughing (oh I said that but I do it a lot, so I'll put it twice)....

Intelligence, Good Looks, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Handsome, kind, hairy and someone who isn't afraid to be himself and to experience a bit of passion - sadly, it's a lost emotion. Here is a sampling of men that tend to catch my fancy: men who are comfortable being goofy and self-deprecating; men who travel; men who nurture and let their inner-child play; active, energetic men; men with facial hair (but a handsome face is a handsome face no matter what); men who understand their purpose in life and act on it; men who are happy with themselves and life; punctual, considerate and humble men; men in an educational/teaching capacity; men who value monogamy and want to be monogamous; men who don't take themselves or life too seriously (relax!); patient men (you may need to wait/date a bit to find out if we click); men who are just as excited as me about the process and joy of discovering one another's quirks, idiosyncrasies; men who celebrate and not mourn/complain about their birthday. That should do it for now.

Date, Intimate, Committed