I can be reserved until I get comfy in another's presense. I have a sharp sense of humor ranging from banter, self-effacement, dry wit, to the absurd. I'll be the first one to poke fun at myself, but I don't think it's cool to blast others. Humor and laughter are very important in my life, but I do not waltz through life as though I were in constant performance of a comedy/variety show: I'm accutely aware of the fine line when humor is tasteful and appropriate, and when humor is thoughtless or cruel.

I would love to meet a guy who honestly understands and appreciates the responsibilities that are necessary in establishing a lasting relationship. I want a match who has courage and respect enough to communicate openly, rather than making me fill in any blanks, as it were. I long to know how it feels to let down all guard--to be at my most vulnerable--yet understand that I am entirely safe.

Sagittarius

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Single

No

No

Hands

Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

No pets

No

College Degree

Part-time

Hospitality / Travel

Concierge

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

No

Nerd

Shy, Observant, Friendly

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Movies, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Museum

Just meeting for coffee or taking a long walk together. I would not want an activity to distract getting to know how we interact with one another.

Driving one of the L's, skydiving, scuba diving, slow dancing with a man.

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

On Holidays

Liberal

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

News, Documentaries, Instructional, Movies

Comedy, Drama, Thriller

Electronic, Classical, New age, Ambient

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Health, History, Humor, Reference, Satire

Getting up early, having coffee, getting exercise such a yoga class, hanging out with friends in small groups, biking along the lakefront, visiting any of our city's museums, attending a play at a store-front theater, hanging out in a coffee house, playing tennis or volleyball, hosting little get-togethers in my place.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I look for a man who is not afraid of either eye contact or long pauses during a conversation. I look for someone who has enough self-respect that he treats others with equal levels of respect. I want to find a man who has the courage to allow himself to be vulnerable in making a connection with another.

Intimate, Committed