Anglais

Hey, guys. I'm a 46 y/o Black cub enjoying life in Chicago, my hometown. I'm a happy man blessed with a great family, close friendships, a good job, and a comfortable abode, and I'd love to have a cool, sweet dude with whom to share some of life's abundant pleasures and joys. While I am looking toward a committed relationship at some point (when the fit is right), I understand that establishing that level of committment takes time, wise decision-making, the slow building of trust, mutuality and compatibility. And all of that begins with the first date. So, let's start there.

I am 5'8", 215, hairy (chest, back, butt, legs, arms) good-looking, shaved head and very short beard. I am a clean, honest, healthy, sane, friendly, easy-going, welcoming man. I seek those same qualities in other men. I am HIV-, STD-, d/d-free. Sexually, I am a total bottom, mostly oral (love to have a man kick back, relax and enjoy the pleasures my mouth provide), but I'm hoping to meet the right guy who can guide me to being his complete bottom.

While I'm totally open to meeting men of any age, I tend to prefer men over 40. Your looks, body type, sexual endowment and endurance (you know, all those things that seem to mean the world to most gay men. . .LOL) are less important to me than your personality, intellect, sense of humor, integrity and honesty. Yes, I'm serious.

I want to be with a man who really enjoys both quiet evenings home with a DVD and good food and small gatherings with friends and/or family. I love to dance, but hitting the clubs and bars is not very important to me anymore. Chicago (and your city, too) has so much to offer culturally, it would be a joy to share it all with my guy.

Don't be shy, men. Let's talk. Hope to hear from you.

Verseau

Trapue

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Marrons

Afro-Américaine

Célibataire

Non

Pas sûr/e

Yeux

Oreilles percées, Tatouages visibles

Noirs

Pas d'animaux

Oui

Diplôme universitaire

Plein-temps

Politique/Gouvernement

Deacon, Church of The Poison Mind (LOL!)

De 60,000 € à 74,999 €

Seul/e

C'est plutôt calme

Non

Oui - socialement

Tête

Réservé, Timide, Observateur, Sympa, Comique, Ouvert

Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Télévision, Films, Internet, Danse, Famille, Dîner , Théâtre, Cuisine

Sortir avec des amis, Faire du shopping, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Lire, Aller au casino, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée

First dates should be as low-stress/pressure as possible. For me, that means meeting at a quiet coffeehouse or cafe on a Saturday morning so that we can talk easily, feel each other out, and ascertain compatibility.

dating a gay bear or cub.

Sympa, Trublion, Cool, Neuneu

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

Jamais

As corny as it may sound, my goal in life is to always strive to be the best man I can be. That means self-improvement (emotional, spritual, physical), being emotionally available to my family and friends, not repeating mistakes, giving thought to major decisions, and wisely allowing only good people into my life.

Vicelard, Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Obscur/e, Coquin/e

Documentaires, Drames, Programmes instructifs, Films, Rediffusions

Action, Science-fiction, Romantiques, Drames, Horreur, Thrillers

Country, Rock, Pop, Classique, Jazz, Dance, Soul

Littérature ancienne, Autobiographies, Biographies, Littérature classique, Fantaisie, Fictions, Histoire, Maison & jardin, Horreur, Humour, Programmes instructifs, Mystères, Philosophie, Science-fiction

Out: My friends, my dude and I hitting a club that has great cocktails and slamming House Music. Or all of us taking in a great movie followed by dinner and drinks. Afterwards, my man and I make out, make love, sleep well!

In (my preference): My guy and I cuddling on the sofa, a big bowl of popcorn, a good movie on DVD. Then good loving and spooning.

Intelligence, Humour, Empathie, Sensibilité, Audace, Etrangeté, Bon sens, Délicatesse

I don't want to convolute this answer. I like a culturally savvy man of average appearance (I'm not hung up on any particular race, age, body type, etc.), simple and natural masculinity (this has NOTHING to do with being "straight-acting"-- Yuck), a high level of integrity and honesty, and some working idea of what he wants from life and in a partner. I want a man who loves and accepts me for who I am, and I will return that love and acceptance to him. I want a man who is physically affectionate and who is a top that prefers a more passive--yet masculine--partner. At this point in my life I'm ready to be with a man who wants to settle down and live life with me. A man who has kids is great by me because I LOVE kids and would make a great co-parent.

Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement