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Hey, guys. I'm a 46 y/o Black cub enjoying life in Chicago, my hometown. I'm a happy man blessed with a great family, close friendships, a good job, and a comfortable abode, and I'd love to have a cool, sweet dude with whom to share some of life's abundant pleasures and joys. While I am looking toward a committed relationship at some point (when the fit is right), I understand that establishing that level of committment takes time, wise decision-making, the slow building of trust, mutuality and compatibility. And all of that begins with the first date. So, let's start there.

I am 5'8", 215, hairy (chest, back, butt, legs, arms) good-looking, shaved head and very short beard. I am a clean, honest, healthy, sane, friendly, easy-going, welcoming man. I seek those same qualities in other men. I am HIV-, STD-, d/d-free. Sexually, I am a total bottom, mostly oral (love to have a man kick back, relax and enjoy the pleasures my mouth provide), but I'm hoping to meet the right guy who can guide me to being his complete bottom.

While I'm totally open to meeting men of any age, I tend to prefer men over 40. Your looks, body type, sexual endowment and endurance (you know, all those things that seem to mean the world to most gay men. . .LOL) are less important to me than your personality, intellect, sense of humor, integrity and honesty. Yes, I'm serious.

I want to be with a man who really enjoys both quiet evenings home with a DVD and good food and small gatherings with friends and/or family. I love to dance, but hitting the clubs and bars is not very important to me anymore. Chicago (and your city, too) has so much to offer culturally, it would be a joy to share it all with my guy.

Don't be shy, men. Let's talk. Hope to hear from you.

Водолија

Набијена

173 цм

Смеђa

Црнац/Црнкиња

Сингл

Не

Нисам сигуран/сигурна

Очи

Минђуша/минђуше, Тетоважа на видном месту

Црнa

Немам кућне љубимце

Да

Виша школа

Пуно радно време

Политика/Влада

Deacon, Church of The Poison Mind (LOL!)

$60.000USD до $74.999USD

Сам(а)

Увек је мирно

Не

Да - у друштву

Паметњаковић

Уздржан/уздржана, Стидљив(а), Посматрач, Дружељубив/дружељубива, Занимљив(а), Отворен/отоврена

Читање, Учење, Музика, ТВ, Филмове, Интернет, Плес, Породица, Вечере, Позориште, Кување

Дружење с пријатељима, Шопинг, Волим да останем код куће, Биоскоп, Блеја, Читање, Казино, Игре, Концерт, Посета музеју

First dates should be as low-stress/pressure as possible. For me, that means meeting at a quiet coffeehouse or cafe on a Saturday morning so that we can talk easily, feel each other out, and ascertain compatibility.

dating a gay bear or cub.

Дружељубив/дружељубива, Волим да изазивам невоље, Кул, Блесав/блесава

Духован/духовна сам, али не религиозан/религиозна

Никада

As corny as it may sound, my goal in life is to always strive to be the best man I can be. That means self-improvement (emotional, spritual, physical), being emotionally available to my family and friends, not repeating mistakes, giving thought to major decisions, and wisely allowing only good people into my life.

Пренаглашен, Паметан, Сиров/саркастичан, Дружељубив/дружељубива, Чудан/чудна, Непримерен(а)

Документарце, Драме, Наставне програме, Филмове, Репризе програма

Акције, Научну фантастику, Љубавне, Драме, Хороре, Трилере

Кантри, Рок, Поп, Класична, Џез, Денс, Сол

Античке, Аутобиографије, Биографије, Класике, Фантазије, Фикције, Историјске, Кућа и башта, Хороре, Смисао за хумор, Наставне програме, Мистерије, Филозофске, Научну фантастику

Out: My friends, my dude and I hitting a club that has great cocktails and slamming House Music. Or all of us taking in a great movie followed by dinner and drinks. Afterwards, my man and I make out, make love, sleep well!

In (my preference): My guy and I cuddling on the sofa, a big bowl of popcorn, a good movie on DVD. Then good loving and spooning.

Интелигенција, Смисао за хумор, Саосећајност, Осећајност, Одважност, Чудноватост, Домишљатост, Брижљивост

I don't want to convolute this answer. I like a culturally savvy man of average appearance (I'm not hung up on any particular race, age, body type, etc.), simple and natural masculinity (this has NOTHING to do with being "straight-acting"-- Yuck), a high level of integrity and honesty, and some working idea of what he wants from life and in a partner. I want a man who loves and accepts me for who I am, and I will return that love and acceptance to him. I want a man who is physically affectionate and who is a top that prefers a more passive--yet masculine--partner. At this point in my life I'm ready to be with a man who wants to settle down and live life with me. A man who has kids is great by me because I LOVE kids and would make a great co-parent.

Састанак, Интима, Посвећеност